When a husband and wife divorces, a lot of people will be affected - from the children to the parents of
both parties, and even relatives and friends who were used to be part of the grandeur wedding. That could be one of the reasons why you would end up asking yourself questions like how to get your ex wife back. Here are few tips that might help you in doing so.
Ask for Forgiveness
First and foremost, make sure that you ask for an apology for all the things that you have done that made her to leave you, whether its because you were not able to appreciate the things she did or you lack time with each other. If in case the reason for the breakup was a third party, then find out the reasons why she fell in love with that person, or if the problem is in you, then ask yourself why you were smitten by that other girl, and work things out with your wife. And although it might mean a lot of sacrifices on your part, well just think about the times that you two were so happy with each other, and ask yourself if you still love her, so all the sacrifices will not be put into waste.
Revisit Your Happy Moments
Spend some time alone and spend it well, away from petty distractions and unwelcome triggers that may further aggravate the already tense atmosphere between the two of you. If possible, revisit an old haunt and do the things that you used to love doing together-whether its as simple as a picnic by the lake or a jog around the park early in the morning just when the world is just beginning to wake up and start a new day. Do not be surprised if the old camaraderie is no longer there, that is what the revisiting is for, to slowly and gently remind her of how good it used to be and of course, of how good it can still be.
Have Some Soul Searching
Apart from plotting how to get your ex wife back, do a little soul searching of your own and realize how different you have become since you met her and since she left you. Also, ask yourself if you are still willing to do some sacrifices for the sake of your relationship or if its still possible for you to change for the better. Remember, you can only go so far with the romantic trip down memory lane, sooner or later the two of you will have to face everyday reality and that my friend, I believe, is infinitely more challenging.
Bottom-line is, however way you plan to get her to stay the second time around and regardless of how many books about how to get your ex wife back you will read, it will all be for naught if everything is done without sincerity. Women are born sensitive, so they can easily tell if you are serious with your intentions, or if you are doing it just for your own benefit.